You are not in a "dead zone" (a breakup or a firing). You are in a limbo. You have one bar. And because you have one bar, you convince yourself that a full signal is just around the corner. Why is the One Bar Prison so effective at trapping intelligent, capable people? The answer lies in the dopamine loop studied by psychologist B.F. Skinner.
No connection allows you to move on. A weak connection holds you in purgatory. You were not born to live on the margin of someone else's attention. You were not designed to subsist on breadcrumbs while watching others feast at the table. One Bar Prison
The dead zone will feel like withdrawal. You will shake. You will want to go back. You will convince yourself that one bar is better than none. You are not in a "dead zone" (a breakup or a firing)
In Skinner’s famous experiments, a rat that received a food pellet every time it pressed a lever quickly learned the pattern. When the food stopped, the rat stopped pressing. However, when the food was delivered randomly—sometimes after one press, sometimes after fifty, sometimes never—the rat became obsessed. It pressed the lever thousands of times. It ignored rest, food, and sleep. And because you have one bar, you convince