It is the difference between a sitter who survives the evening and one who conquers it. It is the difference between a father feeling anxious leaving his kids and a father feeling envious that he isn't staying home to join the fun.
Are you a parent searching for a Vol. 4 sitter, or a caregiver looking to develop your Daddy Appeal? Share your stories in the comments below. The best "Dad Save" story wins a feature in next month's issue. The Babysitter Vol. 4 Daddy Appeal
"Daddy Appeal is about filling a gap," says Dr. Elena Vance, a family psychologist based in Austin, Texas. "Historically, babysitting culture has been coded as feminine—soft, quiet, nurturing. But many children, especially boys with high energy, or girls who are risk-takers, need the style of care that society traditionally labels 'paternal.' Vol. 4 simply validates that style as professional and valuable." It is the difference between a sitter who